
You’ve forgiven them. You’ve tried to move on. And you’ve let a significant amount of time pass. But for some reason, you still feel an immense wave of pain when you remember how that person hurt you.

(Warning: This article does use explicit sexual language for the purpose of clearly answering hard questions people are asking. If you’re sensitive to such language and descriptions, you may not want to read further.)
Are there any sexual acts that are off limits for husbands and wives?

Do you have a strong desire to be deeply connected to someone, yet an equally intense fear of getting hurt if you ever did connect deeply? Have you longed for someone to open up to you, but once they did, you pulled away because you didn’t know how to handle the intimacy? Do you feel like you’re in a constant push-pull cycle towards romance, pushing for it but then pulling away once you get close to having it?